10 Things Truly Happy Couples Have In Common

Open Communication

According to eHarmony’s survey, almost 3/5 couples reported having completely open communication with their partner or spouse. Interestingly, millennial men were most likely to say this.

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Romantic Gestures

Date nights boost relationship happiness. 65% have monthly outings, 72% hold hands. Men, 67%, do more gestures like writing notes.

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Affectionate

Beyond hand-holding, varied affection fosters happiness. 68% say "I love you" daily, while 65% share daily kisses.

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Frequent Love Making

60% have weekly intimacy; highest among 25-34 (85%), 18-24 (79%), and 35-44 (77%) groups. Surprisingly, 62% unhappy couples have regular intimacy; more doesn't guarantee better bond.

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Similar Ages, Shared Traits

"Perfectly happy" couples share similar ages and exhibit traits like optimism, creativity, confidence, and sociability, according to eHarmony.

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Wide Circle Of Friends

Happy couples have ample friends, per eHarmony. Some neglect pals while dating, but broad social circles aid relationship joy.

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On Their First Marriage

The survey found that people in their first marriage experience the highest happiness levels. In contrast, those who remarry tend to have better relationships with their spouses.

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With The Same Incomes

Money doesn't guarantee happiness. Rich (71% >$200K) and lower income (65% <$30K) both report relationship satisfaction.

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Do Not Argue A Lot

1/5 argue weekly with partners, more at 35-44, less as they age. eHarmony: less fighting = happier, extremely unhappy people fight less.

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Go To Therapy

17% had couples therapy, mostly together. 2/3 open to future therapy. Men, especially 25-44 Millennials in first marriage, more likely for therapy.

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