11 Signs You're Forcing a Relationship

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You love the idea of a relationship, just not with that person

Desiring companionship might cloud judgment. Fantasizing a relationship differs from reality with a specific person.

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You have to walk on eggshells all the time

Constantly censoring yourself to avoid upsetting your partner dooms a relationship. True love accepts you as you are.

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You hope the person will change

If you expect someone to change for a better relationship, you're forcing it. Love who they are, not an idealized future version.

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You don’t visualize a future with the person

No future plans = no long-term commitment. If neither envisions a future together, the relationship may not last.

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You’re not excited about the future

In love, joyful anticipation for the future is key. If envisioning a positive future together isn't natural, it might be forced.

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You’re always fighting

Frequent fights? Maybe communication issue. Frustration, anger, unhappiness. Trivial arguments are exhausting. Future challenge handling?

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You can’t resolve conflicts

Frequent fights and unresolved conflicts signal relationship issues. Incompatibility might be causing repetitive arguments, risking the relationship.

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You prefer to be apart than together

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Alone time is fine, but constant preference for solitude over togetherness may signal issues. Happy couples naturally draw close; resistance suggests a mismatch.

You wouldn’t mind if your partner broke up with you

Considering avoidance of breakup? Easier if they initiate, but if you secretly wish it, you might not truly love them.

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You fake PDA

Authentic affection is vital, privately or publicly. Forcing displays for appearances harms true relationships.

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You are considering your options

Daydreaming of new partners and activities signals relationship disengagement. Strong bonds keep you committed.

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