The 10 Effects of Divorce That People Don't Talk About

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It can be a big relief.

Divorce brings stress but also relief. Empowered, individuals find joy in freedom. Making sole decisions, a mix of fear and excitement emerges.

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Your relationship with your ex might improve.

Post-divorce, co-parenting fosters friendship. Over time, gratitude and support for ex's happiness strengthen bonds.

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But it takes time before you can be friends.

Approach ex-relationship civility cautiously; rushing into friendship post-breakup often leads to more heartache.

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It's a grieving process.

Divorce: More like a death than drama. Grieve losses, seek help, positive circle crucial. Mindset key in process.

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But it's also a business transaction.

Divorce: emotional time, also business. Surprising paperwork and costs. Focus on practical aspects for better outcomes.

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"Moving on" is much harder than it sounds.

Divorcing means untangling lives: taxes, names, assets. It's a lengthy process requiring constant communication.

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You may feel sorry for your spouse.

Amid bitter divorce, old warm feelings persist due to shared struggles. Compassion remains despite hurtful actions.

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You'll lose some friendships.

Divorce can lead to losing key relationships, including mutual friends, due to changed dynamics and insecurities.

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But other friendships may grow.

Losing some friendships creates space to reconnect with lost contacts, especially single friends, notes therapist Layla Ashley.

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You will have more time for self-care.

Divorce brings more personal time, fostering self-discovery and healthier parenting, as shared custody eases responsibilities.

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